WLA Preconference - Living Your Life on Purpose
Joan Gillman – Living Your Life on Purpose
· Get rid of toxic people in your life
· Do what you enjoy
· Concentrate on your strengths
Practice will not fix your weaknesses
Do what you are best at
If you aren’t in a position of strength, liberate yourself.
· Understand how to be excellent at your job
· My life is fishbowl – put the rocks in 1st or your life is filled with sand & gravel
Friends & Family
Health
Learning
Fun
Leave a Legacy
Tells you what to say no to
· Each role has significant goals
· Stress comes from perception you are not in control
Conflict
Expectations not being met
· Stress can be good
· Training should be for your entire careers
· Use both closed and open doors to manage time.
· Take a time inventory on how you spend your time.
· Create systems that work for you to free up time.
· Build whitespace into your life
Have un-scheduled time blocked off on your calendar
Schedule time to relax
Leave room for the unexpected, the fires
· You have to let other people fail or they won’t learn to do it
· If you are a perfectionist, focus on results
Don’t let mistakes devastate you
· Delegating:
Get over fear of losing control
Set realistic objectives
Let go of easy and face the tough stuff
Match the person to the task – build their strengths
Job is to grow people – get them to the next level
Do it early – don’t wait until you’re swamped
· Every time you are interrupted it takes an average of 15 minutes to get back to the task at hand
· Check out Barbara Bartlein’s Newsletter
· Plan on a weekly and daily basis
Review personal work goals
Spend 15 minutes a week planning to start
Daily to-do list
Never have more than 10 items on your to-do list
· Do one thing at a time